Hey there, gentlemen! Women sometimes speak in languages most men don’t understand. The most common being body language and indirect hints. If only women would just tell us to approach them it would be so much simpler, right? Navigating the dating world and trying to understand women can sometimes feel like trying to learn an ancient script. You see a beautiful woman across the room, and you wonder, “Should I go talk to her? Is she even interested?” I’m here to help you interpret those subtle (and not-so-subtle) signals and hints that she might just be waiting for you to make the first move.
1. The Look and Smile Combo
One of the most classic signs of flirting is when she looks at you and smiles. It’s a pretty good indication that she is interested. That smile is essentially a green light saying, “I’m friendly, come chat with me!”
2. She Positions herself closer to you or points at things near you
If she is moving closer to you and frequently looking at you then it’s a dead giveaway she wants to be approached. Has she moved closer to you without any apparent reason? This is a strategic move on her part to make it easier for you to start a conversation with her. She’s probably checking to see if you’ve noticed her too. It’s a subtle invitation, indicating that you’ve piqued her interest.
Sometimes she and her friends will look at you, you will see them smiling and giggling like little girls. Probably a very solid sign of interest for you to make a move.
3. She Plays with Her Hair, her bag, or her Jewellery
Also known as preening. Women tend to flirt by playing with their hair, bags, and jewelry. It’s a subtle way of saying look at me. If she twirls a strand of hair, adjusts her hairstyle, or smooths it down while looking at you, it could be a subconscious way of drawing your attention to her.
4. Open Body Language and Mirroring
Is she facing you with uncrossed arms and legs? Open body language is a good sign of interest. Bonus points if her feet are pointed in your direction—that’s a subconscious sign of interest and she doesn’t even know she is doing it. Another good one is mirroring. People naturally mimic the body language of those they are interested in. If you notice she’s mirroring your gestures or posture, it’s a subconscious way of showing interest. What are you waiting for make your move.
Remember: Confidence is Key
Women appreciate a man who is confident but not arrogant. If you approach her with a genuine smile and introduce yourself like a normal person. Even if she isn’t interested, she’ll likely appreciate your courage and the opportunity to know you.
Final Thoughts
Don’t let opportunities slip by because you were scared to approach. Getting good with women requires taking action and practice as a whole. Pay attention to these signs, trust your instincts, and take a chance to talk to that cute girl in front of you. After all, every great connection starts with a simple hello.
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