Alright, boys, listen up. Most men think it’s a good idea to compliment women on their appearance. Telling a girl she’s hot or sexy. Well, I’m here to burst that oversized ego of yours and tell you that you are running your chances by complimenting on a woman’s looks. Here’s why you need to stop being clueless, actually up your game, and be creative with compliments.
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1. She Already Knows
Do you think telling a hot chick she’s hot is some groundbreaking revelation? Spoiler alert: she’s been aware of her hotness since she was 15. Telling her she’s hot is like informing her the sky is blue or the water is wet. Congratulations, you’ve achieved the intellectual depth of a puddle.
Telling her something obvious makes you look bad. Yeah, she will say thank you out of politeness doesn’t mean she was attracted to you or has any respect left for you after that.
2. You’re Just Another Clown in the Parade
Ever think you’re the first guy to tell her she’s beautiful? Think again, Einstein. She’s heard it from every desperate loser in her vicinity. Adding your voice to the chorus isn’t going to make you stand out; it’s going to make you blend into the background noise of mediocrity. Be original or be forgotten.
A hot girl has thousands of guys telling her she’s hot and sexy every day on social media and even in person. And you doing the same. You just made sure she should never date you.
3. It’s Not a Compliment, It’s a Statement of Fact
Telling a hot woman she’s hot isn’t a compliment; it’s a dull observation. It’s like telling Bill Gates he’s rich. He’s not going to be impressed by your stunning insight, and neither will she. If you want to give a real compliment, tell her something she hasn’t heard a thousand times already. A unique compliment about her personality or her achievements is way more valuable than something every guy tells her.
4. It Hurts Your Chances
This is the part where you need to sit up and pay attention. Complimenting a woman’s looks before you’ve started dating reduces your odds of dating her. Period.
By telling a woman she’s hot, you’re putting her on a pedestal. You’re making her more important in your mind, and that’s going to mess with your outcome independence. You need to be the prize, not her. Women don’t like guys who simp to her.
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5. It Lowers Your Alpha Status
Even if you think you’re the king of the jungle, telling a hot chick she’s hot makes you look desperate. It’s like playing Russian roulette with your chances. Be smart and keep your compliments unique and interesting. Now yes you might still get a girl to like you after calling her hot or sexy. Sure. But don’t realize that you just made the game harder for yourself when you made that compliment.
Why do you want to ruin your chances for no reason? If you want hard mode go play Elden Ring DLC. Don’t try to enable hard mode with the ladies when you don’t have an abundance of them.
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Conclusion
Next time you’re out there, remember this: don’t be that guy who just complements women left right, and center. Keep your mouth shut about her looks, focus on being interesting, and watch your results skyrocket. If you want to compliment her make sure it’s unique and something she has never heard before. Be unique and interesting. You’ll thank me in the morning when you’re not waking up alone.
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