In the current online world, social media has evolved into more than just apps for sharing pictures and videos. They’ve become the perfect dating apps for meeting dates and hookups. Instagram is one of the giants when it comes to leading the pack for online dating. Whether you’re sliding into DMs or subtly liking posts, Instagram dating is an art that if done right will give you a lot of potential dates.
This guide will show you the nuances of using Instagram to find potential dates, complete with examples and tips.
1. Crafting an Awesome Profile
Your Instagram profile is your online version of your first impression—it’s like your dating resume that shows off your skills, lifestyle, looks, etc. To attract potential dates, it’s essential to create a profile that reflects who you are.
Here is a Good example of a profile:
If you see the pictures here you can see a whole range of pictures that show the person’s funny, adventurous, cool as well as stylish side.
If you’re into hiking, share photos of your adventures. If you’re a foodie, post about your favorite dishes or cooking experiments. The goal is to showcase a life people wanna be a part of. Once you have mastered the photos part that’s 70% of the game right there. Most of your focus on your Instagram profile should be on quality pictures that showcase a lifestyle women would want to be a part of.
The first thing women do when they check an online profile is exactly that. They will check your pictures and see what kind of lifestyle and personality you have based on your pictures.
So make sure you put effort into your Instagram profile.
2. Engage with Potential Matches
Once your Instagram profile is set, it’s time to engage in some initial banter and likes. You can start by liking photos or commenting on posts in a fun interesting way without being too forward.
Example: If someone you’re interested in posts about their love for coffee, you could comment with something like, “That’s my favorite coffee spot too! Their lattes are a treat.”
It’s casual, relatable, and you not testing the waters.
Again don’t overdo it. Usually like only 1 or 2 posts. Comment on 1 post etc.
If you start liking all her pictures and commenting on them you will come off as a creep. Keep it low-key.
3. Sliding Into DMs
The DM is where real connections often start. But how you approach this can make or break your chances when it comes to getting good responses.
Example: If someone posts a story about their latest travel adventure, you could reply with, “That place looks incredible! Any tips for a first-time visitor?”
This opens a conversation about her travel adventure and without being direct you can start a conversation, showing interest in their experiences rather than just their looks. This is usually the hardest part of the game. If you have a good profile your chances, go way up vs a bad profile.
That is why having an awesome Instagram profile is so important.
4. Building Conversations
Once you get a response from her, the next step is to build attraction and comfort. This means engaging in a few back-and-forth conversations followed by asking that person on a date.
The most important thing to note is don’t be needy. Don’t spam messages or reply with essays telling your life story. The Instagram conversation is just a way for you to get a date together. The date is where you really get to know a person.
While Instagram is great for initial interactions, the goal is to eventually meet in person. Transitioning from online chats to real-life dates is the real goal of Instagram dating.
5. Handling Rejection
Not every DM you send will lead to a date, and that’s okay. Dating is always a numbers game. Rejection is a natural part of dating, both online and offline. Don’t take it personally.
You lose every shot you don’t take. So make sure to try. But if it doesn’t work out that’s totally fine. There are plenty of fish in the sea.
Example: For e.g. if someone doesn’t seem interested in meeting up, you could respond with something like, “No worries, I totally understand! It was great chatting with you—take care!”
If they change their mind later they can reach out. If not all good. By then you would have long moved to many other girls so. Don’t take rejection personally. It often has more to do with where the other person is in their life than anything about you.
Instagram Dating
Instagram dating is pretty much the same as any other type of dating. If you put in enough effort in your main profile you will automatically get the results you are looking for in the long run. Make sure to get an awesome Instagram profile that’s public. So girls can check you out. Make sure to be the best version of yourself with professional photos that show your amazing lifestyle.
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