Alright, gentlemen. One of our students asked us this question and we thought it would make a really good blog post. The topic was what are the things women notice when they see a man for the first time. Women are like hawks with laser vision, and they can spot a guy with no game from a mile away. Here’s the lowdown on the top 7 things women notice when they see a man for the first time. Pay attention, because this might just save you a lot of time and effort in attracting your dream girl or girls.
1. Body Structure and Posture
Women are hardwired to go for guys with a good physique – the ones who look like they can win a fight and still have time for a protein shake. Doesn’t mean you need to be jacked but it does me you need to look in shape and fit. A good physique makes you very attractive to women. It also makes all the clothes you wear to suit you even more. So get your lazy butt to the gym, lift some weights, and start eating right. If you’re skinny, eat more. If you are overweight, eat less. Simple as that. And for God’s sake, stand up straight. Walk like you own the place, not like you’re afraid of your own shadow. Confidence in your posture is the first step. If you wanna look more confident you can refer to our guide here.
Before you even say a word, your body language is doing all the talking. Confidence radiates through how you carry yourself—your posture, the way you walk, and how you enter a room. Women are drawn to men who exude calm self-assurance, not arrogance or insecurity.
Gym and workouts do help a lot with body posture and physique. The gym is basically therapy for men. Get fit and healthy and you will instantly attract more women.
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2. Your Face and Smile
Your face is the first thing women see, genius. So, clean up those teeth. A nice smile can melt hearts, but yellow, crusty teeth will send them running away. A confident, friendly smile can work wonders when it comes to attracting women.
You need to take care of your face. Make sure to have a good face care routine that will make sure you look your best. If you need more help you can always book a free call with our coaches to get fashion and dating advice.
Eyes are the window to the soul, and eye contact is one of the fastest ways to build a connection. Women notice when your gaze is steady, warm, and attentive—it shows confidence and interest.
3. Hands and your scent
Your hands can make or break your dating game. When she sees your dirty nails do you think she will feel like having those fingers inside of her? Hell no. Keep them clean, moisturized, and nails trimmed. Strong, clean hands are attractive. It’s not rocket science. Women notice how you carry yourself—right down to your hands. Nervous fidgeting or closed-off body language signals insecurity.
The last thing you want to do is hurt your girl when you are having some naughty fun. Make sure to keep your hands clean and nails trimmed no matter what. Another important thing is your scent.
Scent is often overlooked, but it’s one of the most powerful senses tied to attraction. A pleasant, subtle fragrance can leave a lasting impression, while a lack of attention to hygiene or overpowering cologne can do the opposite.
4. Shoes
Believe it or not, women notice your shoes. If you’re rocking dirty, beat-up sneakers, you’re basically screaming, “I don’t care about myself.” Invest in a few good pairs of shoes, clean them regularly, and wear the right pair for the right occasion. First impressions matter, and your shoes are part of that package.
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There is a reason why women have so much footwear. They really care about it. As a man, it’s your job to make sure you have good shoes that match your fashion style and vibe.
5. Your Voice and Tone
Women love a man with a deep manly voice. Speak slowly and confidently. If you have an accent make sure to speak in a way that shows it off but also makes sure you are easy to hear and understand. A deep, relaxed voice is way more appealing than some high-pitched, frantic babbling. Slow down, listen more, and don’t interrupt like a hyperactive guy.
Your voice is a powerful tool for attraction. Women notice not just what you say, but how you say it. A calm, confident tone with clear articulation can instantly make you more appealing.
Women appreciate a man who can hold a conversation and really listen to her. If you have a good voice and tonality she will instantly find you more attractive.
6. Your Fashion Sense and Grooming
Women care a lot about how you dress and your grooming and fashion sense. It also makes you look more attractive if you dress like a gentleman.
Like it or not, what you’re wearing and how well you’re groomed speak volumes. Women notice details—your shoes, your watch, whether your clothes fit well, and even if your nails are clean. It’s not about wearing designer brands; it’s about looking put-together and intentional.
Look, if you think you can skip grooming and still look like a champ, you’re living in a fantasy. Keep your hair trimmed and styled, whether you’re rocking a full beard or going clean-shaven. Regular haircuts are a must, and don’t forget about the little things like trimming your nose and ear hair. Clean, neat, and stylish – that’s the grooming trifecta.
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Wear clothes that fit well and show off your physique. Stay updated with fashion trends but don’t be a slave to them. Have a few classic pieces in your wardrobe – a well-fitted blazer, some good jeans, and a pair of dress shoes can do wonders. Dress like you’ve got somewhere important to be, even if you’re just grabbing coffee. Looking sharp tells the world you’ve got your act together.
A well-groomed and fashionable man is 100 times more attractive than a man with bad grooming and fashion sense.
7. Hair and Skin Care
Women notice your hair and skin a lot. There is a reason women spend a lot of time doing makeup. If your hair looks like a bird’s nest its not gonna make her attracted to you. You need to invest your time and money in quality skin and haircare products.
Taking care of your hair and skin isn’t just for women. A clean, well-groomed appearance is attractive. Use skin care products if you need them, and keep your hair looking sharp. Acne and dark circles don’t have to be your permanent look. Take some pride in your appearance.
The Bottom Line
Thats all folks. These are the 7 things women notice when they meet you for the first time. Whether you are on a date or just in the club or walking down the road. If you get these 7 things sorted you will start making women chase you and not the other way around.
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- Dress for Success: Discover the outfits that flatter your body type and express your individuality.
- Boost Your Confidence: Wear clothes that make you feel powerful and ready to take on the world.
- Master the Art of First Impressions: Stand out on dates and social occasions with a style that’s authentically you.
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