When it comes to relationships between men and women, understanding the underlying messages behind women’s complaints can be a game-changer. You might think that all the complaints you receive from women are bad. But that’s not always the case. Here are five key complaints that, if you’re hearing them, indicate you’re on the right track.
1. “You Never Get Jealous. That Means You Don’t Really Care About Me.”
When a woman says you never get jealous, she might be testing your level of attachment and interest. What it really means: you’re non-needy and outcome-independent. This can be unsettling for some women because it goes against the conventional wisdom that jealousy equals affection. Your lack of jealousy shows confidence and security, which can sometimes lead women to question your feelings due to societal expectations.
2. “You Need to Change. And Be More Nice.”
Translation: You need to start adhering to my Disney Beta Male Conversion Program™. This is a common thing that girls will do consciously or subconsciously where she will try to turn you into the beta nice guy, as opposed to your current alpha confident outcome independent behavior. If you decide to listen to her it will often lead to more drama, reduced attraction, and less sex overall in the relationship. Maintaining your frame and not succumbing to this request will keep the attraction strong. It does not mean you need to be a jerk. But it does mean you should not be the nice beta guy that girls hate. Remember, the more she wants you to “change,” the more attracted she remains.
3. “Why Don’t You Ever Comment on My Instagram? All the Other Guys Do.”
Commenting on her social media is the kiss of death. Never I mean never ever write needy comments on a girl’s social media. E Be it Facebook or Instagram. Let her orbiters handle the commenting part. Your disinterest in this social media engagement sets you apart and keeps her intrigued. Women are drawn to men who don’t act like every other guy in their DMs, and your aloofness works in your favor.
If you constantly simp for her attention then you are guaranteed to lose her. Be confident and outcome-independent. It’s her loss if she loses you not the other way around
4. “You’re So Busy All the Time!”
This complaint is a testament to your ambition and career success. Women are more likely to lose interest in a guy who is always available and doing nothing significant with his time. Being busy and hard to pin down makes you more desirable. It shows you’re a man with a purpose, which is incredibly attractive to women.
Making your goals the focus of your life is key. This does not mean you don’t spend time with your girl. But it does mean you should be available all the time. Your girlfriend should never be the center of your life.
5. “You Hardly Text Me.”
This is perhaps the most telling complaint about your overall frame with her. If you are getting this complaint from her then you are gold. Most men text women too much, leading to decreased attraction over time. The more messages you send her and god forbid the paragraphs of messages. The less attraction she has for you. If she’s complaining that you “never” text her, it means you’re maintaining an attraction-boosting frame where you show no needy behavior. This behavior sends strong signals that you’re confident, independent, and not desperate for her attention unlike all the other guys constantly messaging her.
Conclusion
These complaints, though seemingly negative, actually indicate that you’re doing things right. They show you’re maintaining a strong frame, being non-needy, and keeping your independence, all of which are crucial for sustaining attraction in a relationship. So the next time you hear these complaints, take them as a sign that you’re on the right path.
Again don’t take things to the extreme. Calibration is key.
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