Dating can be fun and interesting, but it can also be a minefield—especially if you find yourself involved with a narcissistic girl. Narcissistic girls are notorious, as they can be manipulative, self-centered, and abusive. If you suspect that your girlfriend might be a narcissist, it’s crucial to recognize the signs early on. Here are 7 signs she is a narcissist:
1. She’s Always the Center of Attention
One of the most common traits of a narcissist is the constant need to be the center of attention. If all the conversation that happens between you two is about her, her likes, her day, etc. It’s a red flag. A narcissist will always turns conversations back to herself, even when the topic has nothing to do with her. She will be addicted to social status and will constantly try to show it off.
2. Lack of Empathy
The key characteristic of a narcissistic person is a lack of empathy. Does your girlfriend seem uninterested when you share your feelings or experiences? If she doesn’t care about what you or others feel then it’s highly likely that she cannot empathize with someone else’s pain and struggles. Narcissists often think that the world revolves around them and they prioritize their own needs and emotions over those of everyone else.
3. Addiction to Social Media
Narcissists are often masters of charm. They are used to charming people be it in real life or social media. You will often see them addicted to social media posting photos constantly. Since narcissistic women crave attention social media addiction is a given. If she is constantly posting pictures on Instagram and Snapchat chances are she is a narcissist.
4. Constant Need for Validation
Does she constantly seek compliments, attention, or reassurance? Narcissistic women have an insatiable need for validation from men. They will crave social status and social media attention to feel superior. She will constantly fish for compliments and seek attention and validation from you. Chances are she is doing this with other men as well. Narcissists often believe they deserve special treatment and can become manipulative, angry, or resentful when they don’t get their way.
5. She’s Highly Manipulative
Narcissistic women are skilled manipulators. They are used to playing with men and will usually have multiple guys on the backup list. They might use guilt, fear, or trauma as an excuse to control others and get what they want. Manipulation can be subtle or overt, but it’s always a toxic sign in a relationship.
6. Blame-Shifting and Playing the Victim
Since narcissists are so self-centered they believe they can do no wrong. If your girlfriend consistently blames others for her problems on others and plays the victim card. It’s a major red flag. If you find her being the victim in every story she tells you can be sure that something is up.
7. She Lacks Female Friends
If a girl can’t get along with other girls you can be sure she is a narcist. If she only has boyfriends and no long-term girlfriends or girl best friends it’s a major red flag. Girls are more likely to spot narcissistic behavior since they are not enamored by beauty. Men tend to ignore the red flags when the girl is hot. If your girlfriend has a history of short-lived friendships with other girls or frequent fallingouts with others, this could be a sign of her narcissistic behavior.
Conclusion:
Recognizing the signs that you’re dating a narcissistic girl is the first step in protecting yourself. If you noticed a lot of traits from the list above then you can be sure you are with a narcissistic person. Remember, you deserve a partner who values, respects, and cares for you. Not someone who uses you to their benefit.
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