Alright, gentlemen, here is a topic thats very important and not talked about enough in my opinion. It’s time to have a real talk about something no one wants to deal with—cheating. Those gut feelings and nagging suspicions are there for a reason. If you’re worried that your girl is cheating on you here are the signs you need to look out for. It is time for you to become the Sherlock Holmes to figure out this mystery.
1. Unexplained Absences
If your girlfriend or partner is suddenly unavailable for long periods of time without a good explanation, that’s a major red flag. You will notice this, especially on weekends when she is always busy or up to something but is not open about what. She will avoid date plans and avoid meeting up with you.
She might meet you during the week but not during the weekends. She will say she has some plans with her girlfriends etc. She will seem very distant when you try to make date arrangements with her.
2. Sudden Changes in Appearance
This one is a bit controversial but has been true on a lot of occasions. One of the biggest giveaways is a sudden change in her appearance. If she is suddenly buying new clothes, going to the gym, doing yoga, and trying to look her best out of the blue chances are something is up. This is true especially if she never does it normally. Sometimes it could be more than just a desire to feel good. A drastic makeover in appearance can sometimes be a sign that she’s trying to impress someone else—someone who isn’t you.
Now this by itself is not enough. If you see any of the other signs mentioned here along with this then yes something is up.
3. Increased Secrecy With Her Phone
If she’s suddenly very secretive with her phone, something’s up. Whether it’s changing passwords, hiding her screen when texting, or taking calls in another room, increased secrecy with her phone is a major red flag. Sure, everyone deserves privacy, but if it’s a sudden change and her behavior shifts from open to overly secretive then she’s doing something sneaky.
Another good sign is you see dating apps or random chat apps on her phone. If you see such apps on her phone then it’s a very good chance she is cheating on you.
4. Emotional Distance
Has she gone from being your biggest fan to acting like she barely knows you? Women will mentally break up first before actually breaking up with you. A sudden emotional distance can be a sign that her attention and affection are going elsewhere. If she’s no longer interested in doing the things you used to do together, or if she seems more detached and less affectionate, it could be a sign that she’s emotionally checked out.
This is quite common in relationships before breakups and divorces. Women will first emotionally check out of the relationship and then once they are over you, they tell you about breaking up or the cheating part.
That is why many times women get over relationships faster than men cause they had already prepped months ahead.
5. Changes in Intimacy
A sudden shift in your sex life can be another sneaky sign of cheating. If she’s suddenly less interested in having sex with you or is entirely avoiding having physical intimacy with you it’s a pretty good sign she is either cheating or planning to break up.
If you feel something is up trust your gut. If something feels off, it probably is. Our natural human instincts are often spot-on when it comes to detecting changes in a relationship. So if you’re picking up on multiple signs that she is cheating and something just doesn’t feel right, trust your intuition and have an honest conversation with her.
6. She Becomes More Critical, Defensive or Avoidant
If you find your partner suddenly finding fault with everything you do, it might be because she’s comparing you to someone else in her mind and finding mental justifications to move on from you. Harsh Criticism that comes out of nowhere, especially if it’s about things that never bothered her before, can be a sign that she’s emotionally or physically involved with someone else and is subconsciously justifying her behavior by finding faults in you. In her mind, she wants to justify her cheating on you and she will make some sort of logic in her mind as to why what she is doing is right and it’s not her fault.
Another sign is that she gets defensive or changes the subject when you try to talk about your relationship or what going on, it’s a sign something’s not right. Defensiveness, especially when there’s no reason for it, can indicate guilt of doing something that she doesn’t want to let others know.
7. She keeps you Hidden Socially and Online
This is another very big red flag if she never introduces you to anyone be it her friends or family. This includes online pictures as well. If you are not in any of her pictures or if she is cropping you out in any of the vacations or getaways you are going on together.
She is cheating on you or is actively looking for other guys. In both cases, you are gonna get the short end of the stick. If she really loves you and finds you very attractive she will show you off.
Conclusion: Trust Your Instincts
If you’re noticing several of these sneaky signs of cheating in your relationship, then it might be time to have a serious conversation with your partner. While these signs don’t guarantee she’s cheating they are very good signs something is wrong. If you have multiple of these signs happening at the same time then yeah you are in trouble. Trust your instincts and remember it’s always better to get off quickly when you are on the wrong train. Makes coming back to the right one that much easier.
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